…being an alpha male doesn’t mean being an athletic idiot anymore.

It’s the attitude towards life, the “thinking outside the box”, the confidence and determination to go where he wants and not fearing the risks nor what people think(among other points) which defines the new breed of alpha males.

I certainly have much more women to pick from when compared to a beta male(or a wuss), but I nevertheless take pride and feel much more at ease spending my time with a highly intelligent, classy ambitious and successful woman.

Amazing women have nothing to prove, so they don’t mind embracing their feminine and slightly submissive side when they are involved with an alpha male.

The aggressive brainless hunk and the dumb sexy blonde NO MORE defines the notion of an alpha male.

It was mistakenly posted as a response to “Someone”

Someone, Mea Culpa!

Although this blog was not intended to discuss the American Civil War, I am going to take my chance to post my reaction to it since you provided us with an opening:
“What about the whites in my ancestry who fought against slavery, one of whom died in the Civil War”

To your assertion that you had descendants who fought and died in the American Civil War and that “I was born in 1983. I had nothing to do with slavery or Jim Crow.” You’re absolutely right, but why should you expect that black people to be thankful to whites and their descendants for fighting to ending slavery, although I’m sure you know that was never the principal motive for war? Its comments like “What about the whites in my ancestry who fought against slavery, one of whom died in the Civil War” like this that drives Blacks batty.

Even though you did not use the word “thankful,” I’m wondering what was the reason for the comment, since the blog is dealing with a completely different topic; thus it would leads one to believe that black people should demonstrate magnanimity for those who fought, and of course, those who lost their lives.

At times, one just has to keep talking to White Americans on the matter of race and race relations and their racism just oozes; not so in this particular case, but this is definitely on one of “CLULESSNESS”

What you fail to understand or is just being disingenuous, the institution of CHATTEL SLAVERY existed throughout the entire early United States – not just the US South. I am just sick and tired of people like you, who believe, that people of African descent should be thankful that they were freed by white people. Nobody had to free anybody, if people of your ilk did not perniciously enslave them in the first place, and even after they were freed, were hamstrung (Jim Crow) for nearly another century by the descendants of that same ilk that held them in chattel servitude. There never would have been the need for the Civil Rights Act, if there was no Jim Crow. Don’t expect American of African descent to pat you on your back, or like-minded people as yourself for abolishing slavery and giving them “rights”

Cease asking for magnanimity from African American because they were freed by whites.
What’s next, reparation from African American to all the descendants and kinfolk of the soldiers who served and died? Highly unlikely!

This is absolutely preposterous. Its ‘tantamount to you gouging out my eyes, hands me a “white cane,” and then assert that I should be thankful for the cane.

Burn down my house, provides me with a hovel and expects gratitude.

This is totally illogical.

I think the black women/white men who are finding that they continually have problems with white men/black women is because they themselves are angry inside and that anger will turn ANYONE off. The issue is really inside that specific individual and not attributed to any one single group.

I suggest to those individuals who seem to have the respective chips on their shoulders to not view someone as the “white devil slave master” or the “ghetto hoochie mama” because generally speaking most white men and most black women are pretty darn cool.